Ki Seitzei 21:13 · unit 7

TT #20 · Parashas Ki Seitzei · First aliya · Passuk 21:13

The Complete Passuk

וְהֵסִ֩ירָה֩ אֶת־שִׂמְלַ֨ת שִׁבְיָ֜הּ מֵעָלֶ֗יהָ וְיָֽשְׁבָה֙ בְּבֵיתֶ֔ךָ וּבָ֥כְתָ֛ה אֶת־אָבִ֥יהָ וְאֶת־אִמָּ֖הּ יֶ֣רַח יָמִ֑ים וְאַ֨חַר כֵּ֜ן תָּב֤וֹא אֵלֶ֙יהָ֙ וּבְעַלְתָּ֔הּ וְהָיְתָ֥ה לְךָ֖ לְאִשָּֽׁה׃

And she shall remove the garment of her captivity from upon her, and she shall remain in your house and weep for her father and her mother a full month; and afterward you may come to her and possess her, and she shall be your wife.

Chabad.org — 21:13

Source Citation

Torah Temimah points to Kiddushin 68b.

Sefaria — Kiddushin 68b

Core Text of Chazal

Core Text
וְאַחַר כֵּן – הַנָּכְרִית לֹא תִּפְסֵי בָּהּ קִדּוּשִׁין, דַּאֲמַר קְרָא וְאַחַר כֵּן תָּבוֹא אֵלֶיהָ וּבְעַלְתָּהּ וְהָיְתָה לְךָ לְאִשָּׁה, מִכְּלָל דְּמֵעִקָּרָא לֹא תִּפְסֵי בָּהּ קִדּוּשִׁין.

English: “And afterward” — kiddushin does not take effect with a non-Jewish woman, for the verse says “and afterward you shall come to her \ldots and she shall be your wife,” implying that beforehand kiddushin does not take effect with her.

On the daf / in context: The sequence “afterward \ldots and she shall be your wife” teaches that only after the conversion process does marriage acquisition become possible. A child born from relations before conversion follows the mother’s status.

Type of Learning

Derash from the sequential language “ve-achar kein \ldots ve-hayesa lecha le-ishah.”

What Is Learned

Kiddushin does not take effect with the captive woman until after the conversion process prescribed by the verse; beforehand she remains a non-Jewess for the purpose of lineage.