English: “And you shall take for yourself” — so that you should not say “this one is for Father” or “this one is for my brother.”
On the daf / in context: Sifrei states the same restriction in slightly different wording from the Bavli. The permission is strictly personal; the soldier may not designate the captive woman for any other family member.
Type of Learning
Mi’ut from the word “lecha” (Sifrei parallel to the Bavli).
What Is Learned
A soldier may not claim a captive woman under this law for his father or his brother; the permission is only for himself.