Chayei Sarah 24:14 · unit 3

Parashas Chayei Sarah · Passuk 24:14

The Complete Passuk

וְהָיָ֣ה הַֽנַּעֲרָ֗ אֲשֶׁ֨ר אֹמַ֤ר אֵלֶ֙יהָ֙ הַטִּי־נָ֤א כַדֵּךְ֙ וְאֶשְׁתֶּ֔ה וְאָמְרָ֣ה שְׁתֵ֔ה וְגַם־גְּמַלֶּ֖יךָ אַשְׁקֶ֑ה אֹתָ֤הּ הֹכַ֙חְתָּ֙ לְעַבְדְּךָ֣ לְיִצְחָ֔ק וּבָ֣הּ אֵדַ֔ע כִּי־עָשִׂ֥יתָ חֶ֖סֶד עִם־אֲדֹנִֽי׃

let the maiden to whom I say, ‘Please, lower your jar that I may drink,’ and who replies, ‘Drink, and I will also water your camels’—let her be the one whom You have decreed for Your servant Yitzchak. Thereby shall I know that You have dealt graciously with my master.

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Source Citation

Torah Temimah points to Berachos 40a. E-Daf · Sefaria — Berachos 40a

TT lemma: שתה וגם גמליך.

מִכָּאן דְּאַף עַל פִּי שֶׁאָסוּר לְאָדָם לִטְעֹם קֹדֶם שֶׁיַּאֲכִיל לִבְהֶמְתּוֹ, הָנֵי מִילֵּי בַּאֲכִילָה, אֲבָל לִשְׁתִיָּה הָאָדָם קוֹדֵם, כִּדְאַשְׁכְּחַן בְּרִבְקָה שֶׁאָמְרָה שְׁתֵה וְגַם גְּמַלֶּיךָ אַשְׁקֶה.

From here [we learn] that although it is forbidden for a person to taste food before feeding his animal, that applies to eating; but regarding drinking, the person takes precedence, as we find with Rivkah who said “Drink, and I will also water your camels.”

On the daf / in context: The general rule prioritizes feeding one’s animals before oneself; the language of the servant’s request and Rivkah’s reply is used to distinguish drinking from eating.

Type of Learning

Custom (Bavli — priority of human drinking vs. animal feeding)

What Is Learned

A person may drink before watering animals, even though one must feed animals before eating oneself; Rivkah’s offer of water first to the man and then to the camels supports the distinction.