Vayeira 19:19 · unit 1

Parashas Vayeira · Passuk 19:19

The Complete Passuk

הִנֵּה־נָ֠א מָצָ֨א עַבְדְּךָ֣ חֵן֮ בְּעֵינֶ֒יךָ֒ וַתַּגְדֵּ֣ל חַסְדְּךָ֗ אֲשֶׁ֤ר עָשִׂ֙יתָ֙ עִמָּדִ֔י לְהַחֲי֖וֹת אֶת־נַפְשִׁ֑י וְאָנֹכִי֙ לֹ֣א אוּכַ֔ל לְהִמָּלֵ֖ט הָהָ֔רָה פֶּן־תִּדְבָּקַ֥נִי הָרָעָ֖ה וָמַֽתִּי׃

Behold now, your servant has found favor in your eyes, and you have magnified your kindness that you have done with me to keep me alive; but I cannot flee to the mountain, lest the evil overtake me and I die.

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Source Citation

Torah Temimah points to Yerushalmi Kesubos 13:10.

TT lemma: פן תדבקני הרעה.

Sefaria — Yerushalmi Kesubos

Core Text of Chazal

Core Text
פֶּן תִּדְבָּקַנִי הָרָעָה. אֵין הַבַּעַל מוֹצִיא אֶת אִשְׁתּוֹ בְּעַל כָּרְחָהּ מִנָּוֶה לְנָוֶה, וַאֲפִלּוּ מִנָּוֶה הָרָעָה לְנָוֶה הַיָּפֶה, מִפְּנֵי שֶׁהַנָּוֶה הַיָּפֶה בּוֹדֵק, דִּכְתִיב פֶּן תִּדְבָּקַנִי הָרָעָה וָמַתִּי.

English: “Lest the evil overtake me.” A husband may not force his wife to move from one dwelling to another against her will—even from a bad dwelling to a good one—because the good dwelling itself tests her, as it is written, “lest the evil overtake me and I die.”

On the daf / in context: Lot’s fear of moving even to a better place is cited as the basis for the rule that a wife cannot be compelled to change residences against her will.

Type of Learning

Derash on the verse (Yerushalmi) — not a formal named middah of the 13. A narrative fear is generalized into a halakhic protection for a wife’s domicile.

What Is Learned

A husband may not compel his wife to leave her dwelling for another, even a better one; Lot’s words “lest the evil overtake me” support this protection.