Vayeira 18:9 · unit 1

Parashas Vayeira · Passuk 18:9

The Complete Passuk

וַיֹּאמְר֣וּ אֵׄלָ֔יׄוׄ אַיֵּ֖ה שָׂרָ֣ה אִשְׁתֶּ֑ךָ וַיֹּ֖אמֶר הִנֵּ֥ה בָאֹֽהֶל׃

They said to him, “Where is Sarah your wife?” And he said, “Behold, in the tent.”

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Source Citation

Torah Temimah points to Bava Metzia 87a.

TT lemma: ויאמרו אליו.

Sefaria — Bava Metzia 87a

Core Text of Chazal

Core Text
וַיֹּאמְרוּ אֵלָיו. תָּנֵי מִשּׁוּם רַבִּי יוֹסֵי, לָמָּה נָקוּד עַל אֵיוֹ שֶׁבְּאֵלָיו? לִמְּדָה תּוֹרָה דֶּרֶךְ אֶרֶץ שֶׁיִּשְׁאַל אָדָם בְּאַכְסַנְיָא שֶׁלּוֹ.

English: “And they said to him.” It was taught in the name of Rabbi Yosi: Why are there dots over the letters of “eilav”? The Torah is teaching proper conduct—that a person should inquire after his host’s household.

On the daf / in context: The dotted letters on “eilav” are explained as a signal that the angels asked after Sarah, modeling the polite inquiry a guest makes concerning the host’s family.

Type of Learning

Derash on the verse (Bavli sugya) — not a formal named middah of the 13. The extraordinary dots are taken as a pedagogical marker of derech eretz.

What Is Learned

A guest should inquire after the members of his host’s household; the dotted letters over “eilav” teach this rule of etiquette.