Vayeira 18:3 · unit 2

TT #8 · Parashas Vayeira · Passuk 18:3

The Complete Passuk

וַיֹּאמַ֑ר אֲדֹנָ֗י אִם־נָ֨א מָצָ֤אתִי חֵן֙ בְּעֵינֶ֔יךָ אַל־נָ֥א תַעֲבֹ֖ר מֵעַ֥ל עַבְדֶּֽךָ׃

He said, “My lords, if I have found favor in your eyes, please do not pass by your servant.”

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Source Citation

Torah Temimah points to Shabbos 127a. E-Daf · Sefaria — Shabbos 127a

TT lemma: אל נא תעבר.

אַל נָא תַעֲבֹר. אָמַר רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר, בּוֹא וּרְאֵה שֶׁלֹּא כְּמִדַּת הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא מִדַּת בָּשָׂר וָדָם; מִדַּת בָּשָׂר וָדָם אֵין קָטָן יָכוֹל לוֹמַר לְגָדוֹל הַמְתֵּן לִי עַד שֶׁאָבֹא אֶצְלְךָ, וְאִלּוּ בְּהַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא כְּתִיב וַיֹּאמַר אֲדֹנָי וגו' אַל נָא תַעֲבֹר.

“Please do not pass by.” Rabbi Elazar said: Come and see that the attribute of the Holy One, blessed be He, is not like the attribute of flesh and blood. With flesh and blood a lesser person cannot say to a greater one, “Wait for me until I come to you”; yet of the Holy One, blessed be He, it is written, “And he said, ‘My Lord… please do not pass by.’”

On the daf / in context: The same sugya contrasts human hierarchy with Hashem’s willingness to wait for Avraham’s request.

Type of Learning

Derash on the verse (Bavli sugya) — not a formal named middah of the 13. The request itself demonstrates a unique divine attribute of forbearance.

What Is Learned

Unlike human superiors, Hashem allows a human being to ask Him to wait; Avraham’s request illustrates this distinctive divine middah.