Derasha 7 on Terumah 25:8

English: Rabbi arranged a marriage for his son and twelve years of Torah study were initially set before marriage. When the bride was shown to him, he shortened the period, and finally said that he would marry first and study afterward. His father told him: “My son, you have your Creator's wisdom: at first it says, ‘You shall bring them and plant them,’ and afterward it says, ‘They shall make Me a sanctuary and I shall dwell among them.’”