Parashas Vayigash · Passuk 45:15
He kissed all his brothers and wept upon them; and afterward his brothers spoke with him.
Classical midrash (Midrash Tanchuma / Lekach Tov / Sekhel Tov) on the reconciliation and the brothers’ ability to speak only after the weeping.
Sefaria — Midrash Tanchuma, Vayigash 5
English: When Yosef saw that they felt great shame, he said to them, “Please come near to me,” and they came near. And he kissed each one and wept upon him, as it is said, “He kissed all his brothers and wept upon them.” And just as Yosef reconciled his brothers only through weeping, so when the Holy One, blessed be He, redeems Yisrael, He will redeem them through weeping.
Derash on the verse (midrash) — not a formal named middah of the 13. The sequence “and afterward his brothers spoke with him” is read as evidence that reconciliation required the visible demonstration of weeping.
Yosef’s brothers could speak with him only after he kissed them and wept upon them, showing that his heart was at peace with them; the midrash links this to the future redemption that will also come through weeping.