EXTRA · Parashas Vayeira · Passuk 20:11
Supplementary classical material; Torah Temimah lists no citation under this passuk.
Avraham said, “Because I said, ‘Surely there is no fear of God in this place, and they will kill me on account of my wife.’”
Rashi on Genesis 20:11 (citing Bava Kamma).
Sefaria — Rashi on Genesis 20:11
English: “Surely there is no fear of God.” When a stranger comes to a city, do they ask him about matters of food and drink, or about matters of his wife — “Is she your wife or your sister?”
Derash on the verse (Rashi / Bavli) — not a formal named middah of the 13. The content of ordinary questions becomes diagnostic of a society’s fear of Heaven.
A place that interrogates a guest about his wife before offering food reveals a deficit of fear of God; such an environment justifies protective measures.